@ankitanshinde : Today morning, I woke up with slight anxiety. This is not a constant, but I have noticed waking up like this in phases. While I was brushing my teeth, I was wondering what can I create today as part of my morning creation. And I thought let me dig deeper into this morning faint anxiety and see if I understand the cause so I can then accordingly create something to make it disappear for now and the future. I read up online about possible causes for this, most of which seemed to fit—change in environment (I’ve moved cities this year), change in employment (I’ve added a completely new career path this year and modified the old one), emotional shocks (a couple of them since past couple years), financial issues (lots of changes in the past one year, sudden new expenses, future plannings have increased my financial goals which I am yet adjusting to taking my new transitioned intentionally created life along with me), and relationship stress—this is the one that just struck a chord with me.
Yesterday I had a read a post by @tonyrobbins about how life is all about ‘giving’. He said “It’s not what we GET in life that makes us truly FULFILLED, it’s what we GIVE!! After all, secret to LIVING is GIVING”.
I just suddenly saw how I was EXPECTING a lot from my husband in this past week cause I was all over the place with my physical & mental health. I automatically started expecting him to fill the voids in me and was naturally left unfulfilled and distressed, cause one he was super busy flying 3 cities within 3 days for multiple meetings, and two nobody can fill the complex voids in me but myself.
Today morning I realised that this week I was focused on GETTING from him. And I decided to shift my focus to GIVING instead immediately.
After a loooong story, we come to my #morningcreation . Today morning, I created fulfillment & joy for myself in my relationship with my husband by focusing on GIVING the best experience of being a husband to my husband. I immediately called him up, shared this him, shared how I was focused on GETTING from him this past week & how I am now shifting to GIVING, cause that does feel like the besssst *continued in comments below* - 21 minutes ago